It's weird... having someone other than the man I'm married to, touch my lady bits. And I think he probably gets a little turned on by the thought, however, I've never explained what happens behind closed doors. I probably never will. Those moments are private. Between me and the woman of my choosing.
He knows I pay her. He knows we meet in private. I'll lay down, spread my thighs, and then she'll touch me. But it's not dirty, or the least bit taboo, although, I suppose some people wouldn't like to read about it. Some people would feel embarrassed. Maybe even awkward.
I'll never be ashamed to admit it though. It's my body. I need certain things and this has been something I've needed for years now. Yes, there has been more than one female. Over time they change, either leaving town or no longer wanting to provide the services I'm looking for.
But ladies, (and gents, if any of you have happened to stroll past my blog), Pap Smears are important. Our bodies really do need them. And you may not want to be touched by a woman. You might choose a man. The choice is up to you. Just make sure you give your body what it needs.
PAP awareness people...get your mind out of the gutter.